I'm frustrated, finding a girl?

I dont have any experiance with girls. I want to date but I have a lot of problems that I feel need to be sorted out first, but then again I dont want to be even more behind because im already 20 years old. Some of the problems that I have right now is: I have acne, I look about 16 and feel about that age as well, I have braces, I have a tooth missing (The one next to the front teeth/ I getting an implant after braces), Im shy and have low confidence when it comes to getting girls. Some good things about me is, Im very nice when you get to know me, I have a car, Im going to college and I have a job (banquet server). So my question is what should I do to get myself a girl (Sex isnt really that big of an issue with me, I just wanna have a girl to have some kinda of relationship with).





If it helps heres a pic to see what I look like. . .


http://i247.photobucket.com/albums/gg125...

I'm frustrated, finding a girl?
It's not like you're bad looking, just talk to some girls. Be friends with them. The "problems" you stated aren't really problems. You also don't look 16, but just become friends with a bunch of girls and such.
Reply:when you have self confidence


you have the girl


girls do not want pity cases


and as you are you sound just like a pity case


when you stop complaining


and get on with your life


and live a full one at that


is when you attract the girl


and can you blame them?


a girl wants a confident guy with some sort of life plan


she does not want a fixer upper with little promise


and if you fret over dating at 20


don't


focus on education, career, life


then the women


who should be low on your priority list at the moment
Reply:don't worry about it. if you search youll find someone horrible but the second you say your done with this someone will show it happened to me and he's perfect. just live your life and she'll come to you. so dont search all the time just explore and she will be there and when you see her smile you will know. then just go up and talk to her.
Reply:These things tend to happen when your not looking. Which is hard to do. God lets us have things when we can handle them and or to learn from. Just a suggestion not that you looked that bad or anything but that proactive seems to work really well for acne and doesnt seem that expensive. I think you just need to start getting agressive and asking girls out or for what your interested in.
Reply:I think you're pretty good looking actually!


So I'm thinking the thing for you would be to just get confident.


I know that's easier said than done, but just like everything else...practice makes perfect.





Look at the positive things you listed about yourself. You sound like a great guy!


You just have to figure out ways to put yourself out there more. Go to places where you know there will be people, like the mall, beach, coffee shop, etc. and just make small talk!





Conversations can eventually lead to friendships %26amp; relationships if you let them. Just build your confidence and self-esteem and the ladies will come to you darling =)



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