Is it wrong that i would like my long term partner to look like either ' lumidee ' ' lindsay davenport ' or

' cher ' or beth ditto ?





honestly these are my preferences, but im 30 have bpd, im only average to look at....so i get depressed worrying i won't find this type of girl





i have my standards and my preferences and i won't lower them.





but i have my physical imperfections, bald...slightly overweight...torn ankle ligaments...i have bpd....2 lower, front missing teeth....need dental implants......so i worry i wont find women like these.





what does anyone think ?

Is it wrong that i would like my long term partner to look like either ' lumidee ' ' lindsay davenport ' or
of course you will find her


just keep on looking....but when you find her, ask yourself what YOU have to offer her.... because finding her is one thing but keeping her is something entirely different.


It is great that you wont lower your standards for anyone but keep in mind that there are people that wont lower THEIR standards for you either...if a woman looks the way you describe her do you really think that she is going to have an interest in a bald overweight man who is missing teeth and has some mental health issues when she could have a man who more closely meets her own standards.


I say this not to be mean but to place you a bit more in touch with reality!


After reading this, you have a few decisions that you have to make, do you want to have someone to share your life with or are you okay with being alone....





In other posts, you have stated that you dont work due to your depression and now you are stating that you have neglected your dental health etc...if you want a woman who values the physical, dont you think that you should show her you value these same things by doing what you can to show you care more about yourself?


realistically speaking, there is ZERO chance that you will have a girlfriend who looks like this to call your very own unless you make some changes in YOUR life....


A great first and second step would be to see a mental health doctor and a dentist IN THAT ORDER
Reply:Seems like pretty superficial wants to me. It's not wrong to want, but it's usually more realistic to set attainable goals.
Reply:Man if you find a woman that loves you for you, you are way ahead of the rest of the crowd. Beauty is only skin deep but someone that connects with you is forever.
Reply:Everyone has fantasys. ...so use your fantasy's..keep 'em just that! I doubt you'll find a Cher or anyone close...it's a fantacy.....You need some help.......and to acknowledge you aren't Richard Gere.....just an average guy so get you an average woman or be alone!
Reply:You named "Cher", you into grandmothers? While you are wishing you must wish for millions to keep them happy. Some dreams have a way of blocking reality, they are fun but you have to live.



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